Perimenopause Anxiety

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Perimenopause Anxiety: Why You Feel On Edge & What Helps

Written by the PAUSE+ team 

The anxiety that lives in your chest. The 3am spiral about an email from 2019. Crying at a Tesco advert, then snapping at someone for loading the dishwasher “wrong.” If you don't recognise yourself lately, it may not be a personality change — it may be your hormones.

Is anxiety a symptom of perimenopause?

Yes. Anxiety, irritability and feeling tense or nervous are among the most commonly reported perimenopause symptoms. In a study of nearly 1,000 women attending a UK menopause clinic, irritability (90%) and feeling tense or nervous (90%) were among the top five symptoms — ahead of hot flushes. New or worsening anxiety in your late 30s or 40s is worth considering in the context of your hormones.

Why does perimenopause cause anxiety?

Oestrogen and progesterone both influence the brain chemicals that regulate mood, including serotonin and GABA (your natural “calm-down” system). As these hormones fluctuate and fall in perimenopause, that regulation becomes less steady — which can show up as anxiety, a shorter fuse, low mood and a racing mind. Poor sleep and night sweats pour fuel on it, and the exhaustion makes everything feel harder to cope with.

What does perimenopause anxiety feel like?

Our girls describe a constant background hum of dread; anxiety that sits physically in the chest; waking at 3am with a racing mind; disproportionate reactions to small things; sudden tearfulness; and a sense of walking on eggshells with themselves. For some it's the first time they've ever experienced anxiety at all — which is disorienting.

Please reach out for support

If anxiety or low mood is affecting your daily life, please speak to your GP — you deserve support, and there are effective options. If you ever feel unable to cope or have thoughts of harming yourself, contact your GP, call NHS 111, or call Samaritans free on 116 123 at any time. UK guidance notes that antidepressants shouldn't automatically be the first choice for low mood arising from perimenopause, so it's worth discussing the full range of options. Supplements are food, not medicine, and are not a treatment for anxiety or depression.

How long does perimenopause anxiety last?

It fluctuates with your hormones and often eases as levels settle after the menopause transition. That doesn't mean you have to white-knuckle through it in the meantime — support (medical, lifestyle and otherwise) can make a real difference now.

What helps with perimenopause anxiety?

  • Talk to your GP: options may include HRT (which for some women improves mood and anxiety by steadying hormones), talking therapies such as CBT, and other support tailored to you.
  • Protect your sleep: anxiety and broken sleep feed each other; improving sleep often eases both.
  • Movement & stress tools: regular exercise, breathwork and reducing alcohol and caffeine all have evidence for easing anxiety.
  • Targeted supplement support: adaptogens and botanicals traditionally used for stress and calm can form part of a wider toolkit — alongside, not instead of, proper support.

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Frequently asked questions

Can perimenopause cause anxiety for the first time?

Yes. Some women experience anxiety for the first time in perimenopause, linked to fluctuating hormones affecting mood-regulating brain chemistry. If it's affecting your life, see your GP.

Is it perimenopause anxiety or an anxiety disorder?

They can feel similar and can overlap. A GP can help work out what's going on and what support fits — whether that's HRT, talking therapy, other treatment, or a combination.

Why do I wake at 3am with anxiety in perimenopause?

Night-time waking is common in perimenopause (often linked to hormones and night sweats), and waking in the small hours with a racing, anxious mind is a frequently reported experience. Improving sleep and managing stress can help.

Do supplements help perimenopause anxiety?

Supplements are not a treatment for anxiety, but adaptogens and calming botanicals can be part of a wider toolkit alongside medical and lifestyle support. Speak to your GP if anxiety is affecting your daily life.

Related symptoms

Sources: Newson Health / Post Reproductive Health symptom study (2024); NHS, NICE and British Menopause Society guidance on menopause and mood. For general information only; not a substitute for personal medical advice. If you're struggling, Samaritans are available free on 116 123.